{"id":20,"date":"2006-04-22T16:53:50","date_gmt":"2006-04-22T08:53:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jackypeng.com\/blog\/?p=20"},"modified":"2006-06-26T14:54:31","modified_gmt":"2006-06-26T06:54:31","slug":"happy-holidays-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jackypeng.com\/blog\/2006\/04\/happy-holidays-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy holidays!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Last Friday was Good Friday. It was a big day for Christian. It was public holidays in Singapore and Hong Kong, but not in Islamic countries, such as Malaysia and Indonesia. People worked as usual in those countries. <\/font><\/p>\n

The holidays reminded me an interesting complaint from my cousin. <\/font><\/p>\n

My cousin lives in the US. We visited her family during the Christmas’ time and stayed in her house for about a week. One day, we talked about her company, she told me, \u201cI can not say ‘Merry Christmas!’ in my office now, so I am able to say a few more times to you.\u201d<\/font><\/p>\n

\u201cIt’s still the biggest day of a year, and public holidays in America, right? How do you greet with each other in the office?\u201d I wondered.<\/font><\/p>\n

\u201cWell, we can ONLY say ‘Happy holidays!’\u201d she sounded a bit annoyed.<\/font><\/p>\n

\u201cMerry Christmas!\u201d or \u201cHappy holidays!\u201d sounds no different to me.<\/font><\/p>\n

\u201cMaybe she does not like the company.\u201d I thought.<\/font><\/p>\n

I got it straightened out after I followed my Cousins to their church\u2019s silent night party.<\/font><\/p>\n

There were some performances and dramas in the party. The kids played very hard on the stage, but they were short of training. At the end, the priest made an impassioned, powerful speech about the birth of Jesus, which, according to his message, changed our life, made strong impacted on the peace of the world, contributed to the development of humankind and so on. I just joined it for funs; I did not pay much attention. But, I got to know one important point. (The priest effort did not waste his time on me.) <\/font><\/p>\n

The birth of Jesus = Christmas; Merry Christmas! = Happy birthday to Jesus! <\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

So, there is a big difference between saying Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays. Imagine John\u2019s birthday party. Nobody is allowed to say, \u201cHappy birthday to John!\u201d When making a toast, friends can only say, \u201cBest wishes to you!\u201d<\/font><\/p>\n

Isn’t the majority Christian in the US? Why do companies prohibit staff from greeting \u201cMerry Christmas!\u201d in the office? Concerning this, I sent an email to another American friend,<\/font><\/p>\n

PS: While more and more people in China celebrate the Christmas, it is really strange to me that many friends in the US can not say Merry Christmas at work. That is another interesting thing I learn here.<\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

He made a fast and short reply,<\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

P.S. – In the US, Christmas is both a religious and commercial holiday, whereas in Asia it\u2019s pretty much a commercial holiday. Though mostly Christian, the US has people of many religions – and to avoid offending those of Jewish, Muslim, or other faiths that do not celebrate Christmas as a religious celebration, many people say \u201cHappy Holidays\u201d instead – to cover everything. <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

I see! They want to achieve religious harmony. (Harmony is the big keyword of China’s current media.) Religion is very sensitive in the US too. While not allowing to say \u201cMerry Christmas!\u201d does take care of some other religions\u2019, many people\u2019s feeling, it restricts the freedom of Christian. <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

Such enforcement does help maintain religious harmony in many circumstances. There are too many examples in Singapore.<\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

For example, students are not allowed to bring articles with strong religious symbol to schools. A few years’ ago, a Malay family in Singapore sued the government for this, because their daughter were not allow to wear scarf in the school. After lost the case, they transferred their daughter to a school in Malaysia. <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

Also, to avoid segregation, Singapore government strictly controls the proportion of different races in the HDB, the public housing of Singapore. Chinese, Malay, and India must share a certain proportion in every HDB block. For instance, when the number of Chinese resident reaches the limit in a HDB block, no Chinese can buy a house in this block even though there is a house for sale by other race. <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

Such enforcements sacrifice certain groups’ interests for the benefits of bigger communities. <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

It works in Singapore. You can see different races say hello to each other occasionally; you can find children of different races mix together on the playground near the HDB blocks.<\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

Strangely, it was in Malaysia that I felt the truly so-called harmonious society in the first time. (The Malaysia tourism slogan \u201cTruly Asia\u201d does make some sense to me.) <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

Few years ago, we were backpacking in Kuala Lumpur. We went to its Chinatown for some cheap bargains. Like those in many other Chinatown, the sombrous lane was full of people, with shop keepers shouting for business and shoppers bargaining for exotic T-shirts or fake citizen watch. <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

Most of Chinese in the Chinatown speak Cantonese. Suddently, a loud \u201cX<\/font>\u4f60\u8001\u6bcd\uff01<\/span>\u2026\u201d in Cantonese (Kind of Fucking\u2026in English) behind shocked us, while we were searching the way out. We looked back immediately, and saw a local India scolding a Chinese in perfect Cantonese! The Chinese was obviously not the rival. He stepped back, moaning away. <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

I have seen a harmonious society in this quarrel. <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

I think in a truly harmonious society, every member appreciates the similarity and difference between one another and everybody shares the happiness of \u201cMerry Christmas\u201d freely. Even when there is a quarrel, every member can quarrel in each other’s language without going into a bloody war.<\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

It seems KL achieves this without using much enforcement.<\/font> <\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/font><\/p>\n

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